To support a thriving Contra Dance community, here are ways we care for each other.

(See our full Code of Conduct)

We strive to be inclusive and welcoming:

• We welcome young and old, new and experienced dancers to enjoy the dance together.
• We come together with the hope of having fun, not to be perfect.  
• We offer gentle and empathetic cues when we notice someone is confused.
• We dance with whoever is coming at us – meaning people can enjoy dancing either role, regardless of their gender identity or expression.

We act with safety in mind: 

• We dance gently and with consideration for the whole line and hall – not just focusing on our partner.  
• We come fragrance-free, knowing that some people have sensitivities.
• We arrive sober – recognizing that this is a drug and alcohol free event – plus spinning and drinking just don’t mix well 🙂 
• We stay home if we are feeling ill, to keep others in our community healthy. 

We communicate openly and practice consent:

• When we ask someone to dance, we graciously accept ‘no thanks’ as an answer.
• We ask our partner what type of dance they’d like to have – and come to an agreement together, i.e., role they want to dance, if they want flourishes, etc..
• We are gentle with each other – careful to respect physical limitations and preferences on any given night.
• We volunteer our preferences and needs, such as, “I’m dizzy. Can we slow down?” or holding our own arm down when a twirl is offered to indicate “no.”

We support the community:

• We support local musicians and callers by giving what we can at the door. 
• We support the Contra Dance with time, energy, and resources as we are able.
• We give backin other ways – we sweep the floor, invite new friends to contra, or get to know a newer dancer.

Speak up — if you notice something that doesn’t seem quite right, please let an organizer know. Also, you can review our full Code of Conduct.